Grateful

I'm grateful for the boys who know how to treat a girl right. When other boys treat her like dirt, they look at her and say everything is going to be okay and make her forget about what just happened.


I'm grateful for the friends who, when I was embarrassed and felt like a fool, went over to a boy and told him    treating a girl like that was wrong and disrespectful. Also for the ones who, when I was scarred that people would think that I was dirty person for what he did to me, told me that everything was going to be okay, and then made up a funny signal to notify everyone if any of those boys were coming by.


I'm grateful for the apology that was given to me after he had been bet to treat me wrong.


I'm grateful for the apologetic look I got from one of my brothers good friends who was one of the boys who bet the guy.


I'm grateful for the boy that came over to me after this all had happened and told me that he knew how it felt and was there to talk.

I'm grateful for all the people that saw what he did to me and did not judge me. I promise I'm not like that at all.


 Boys: Believe it or not girls don't like to be treated like trash, and when you do treat them like trash they feel like their world is coming to an end. They don't like to be seen as trash especially when they are not. Just treat them right, that's all they want I promise.


Girls: Stand up for yourself. If he treats you like trash, he doesn't deserve you. If you have no idea who he is make it clear that  doing things like that is rude. Tell it to him like it really is. I promise you can make it through it. Just breathe and try to forget. Let your friends help you, it helps make it better. Without my friends I would have probably broken down and cried my eyes out. You can do it.


This might be a little extreme for what happened but I felt like it needed to be said.